Unfortunate News & a Vent on my Part
After spending the afternoon with the baby, birthmom, birthdad and his mom chatting about the infant and determining when to "hand over" the child, J&D got a call from the birthparents lawyer. They want to keep the baby. Which is understandable, but these people LIED about it during that whole meet and greet session!! It is not just that they changed their minds right after the visit as attested by numerous medical decisions and phone calls now coming to light. I understand that I feel J&D would be the best parents for this child (due to facts I haven't elaborated on here) and I understand that after giving birth a woman can change her mind although it was "set in stone" previously. But for the birthdad and his mom to act like J&D are the "bad guys" (seriously) and then for all of them to lie straight to J&Ds faces...it's just cruel and wrong.
Jenny & Dave, your dream of a family will come true. Don't give up.
8 Comments:
Oh Shannon, I feel so terrible for them. If the birthparents had any doubts what-so-ever they NEVER should have let them meet the baby!
I'm so sorry.
Oh, that would be so difficult! I'm at a loss for words.
That's rough.
Tiffany
Shannon I am sending my thoughts and prayers to all of you.
This is just plain CRAP!!!! I am so sad to hear that things fell thru for J&D....My heart goes out to them. Thoughts and prayers
Lisa
That's not fair! Can they do that??
~Megan~
Shannon I'm so sorry jor Jenny and Dave. There's really nothing else I can say. I will keep them in my prayers to help them get through this horrible time.
What devasting news.
Hang in there J&D
Lee-Anne
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